Relationship and Self-esteem Coach, Advanced Certification Hypnotherapy - Advanced Certification Thought Field Therapy - Advanced Transformational Life Coach, Certified Inner Child Practitioner
Are you feeling unhappy? Anxious? Depressed? Looking for change? Do you feel like you are in a rut? Are you lost and not even sure where your life is going? Not sure what you want or desire? You have come to the right place. Jill Lanese has advanced certifications in many adaptive styles of inner work to help you enhance your life, hopes, dreams and achieve your goals. That may be in your career, relationships or simply seeking happiness, inner peace which is often 'easier said than done'. EMPOWER YOURSELF with a life coaching session with Jill. Her proprietary methods along with Thought Field Therapy, Inner Child work and addressing your self-esteem issues can lead you on a path to inner growth, happiness, awareness and synchronicity in life where events start working FOR YOU instead of AGAINST YOU. That combined with psychological modalities and spirituality have the ability to change your life for the better! Most clients begin to see results within a few sessions. When you are emotionally ready for change many begin to see life changing results as quickly as their first session!
Jill works with established and effective therapeutic techniques combined with advanced revolutionary, dynamic and proprietary approaches. Life coaching with Jill has the potential to fill your life with a new-found sense of awareness that ushers in a deep level of emotional healing. Many clients experience a new and autonomous feeling of peace, happiness and gratitude.
You may begin to recognize patterns that no longer serve you; ultimately getting to the bottom of what drives these unwanted and often outgrown destructive patterns. Hiding behind all that negativity is the resilience and wisdom to heal and ultimately succeed - all of which resides deep within you. Ultimately that's where self-esteem comes in. Dealing with low self-esteem is at the core of emotional healing.
Many spiritual practices including Kabballah refer to our ability to 'receive' as a 'vessel'. Depending on the size of that vessel it determines how many blessings you allow into your life. Jill's techniques help you get to the core of the broken pieces of your life; hence fixing the fractured parts that contribute to lowering your sense of what you feel you deserve; thus, ultimately enlarging your vessel. When your self-esteem is low it often minimizes the amount of love, money, blessings and happiness you have in your life. As you heal your self-esteem, your vessel enlarges and true transformation begins.
Working with Jill you can experience an exciting and expansive journey leading towards a future filled with hope, possibility, and newfound courage and strength. She will guide you to re-connect with the most important person in the world - YOU.
Learning to lean on your faith and connecting with Spirit are part of the puzzle. For argument's sake it does not matter who or what you believe in; so I use Universally accepted terms like 'Spirit', 'Universe' or 'G-d). You are free to interpret that in the way that works best for you. But, the key is the CONNECTION & TRUST in a higher power. The greatest healing comes from connecting inward with YOU and outward to Spirit (G-d).
Through the healing journey you will learn to define your boundaries clearly. Suddenly life begins to show you small (and sometimes BIG miracles) on a regular basis. Synchonicity avails! Life flows easier and more meaningfully. In the end you will hardly recognize the NEW YOU!!!! Some clients who work with Jill have gone through much of their life feeling lost or perhaps feel like they have lost themselves to a relationship or job (or other things). They struggle to know what they want or who they are. Together we will work to reconnect you with YOU!
I invite you to reach out if this resonates with you. My approach is spiritual, collaborative, compassionate, direct, and caring. I utilize a person-centered approach incorporating several trauma principles. My goal is for deep transformation to take place. Along the way connection, laughter and tears may flow freely.
If you need a plan to achieve your goals. Jill will help you create a LIFE PLAN and teach you the techniques to achieve the things you desire. Jill has worked with people from all walks of life from housewives, politicians, entertainers, businesspeople, doctors, financial brokers, secretaries, students, therapists, and everything in-between. If you have an honest desire to live the life you dream of and are willing to put in the work then please fill out the contact form. You will receive a response within 48 hours.
'If you don't know where you're going... How will you know when you get there?' - Jill Lanese
To schedule an appointment please click the button below or use the contact form on the Contact page.
(Interested in purchasing more than one Session? Ask us about our discounted packages.)
Jill works with established and effective therapeutic techniques combined with advanced revolutionary, dynamic and proprietary approaches. Life coaching with Jill has the potential to fill your life with a new-found sense of awareness that ushers in a deep level of emotional healing. Many clients experience a new and autonomous feeling of peace, happiness and gratitude.
You may begin to recognize patterns that no longer serve you; ultimately getting to the bottom of what drives these unwanted and often outgrown destructive patterns. Hiding behind all that negativity is the resilience and wisdom to heal and ultimately succeed - all of which resides deep within you. Ultimately that's where self-esteem comes in. Dealing with low self-esteem is at the core of emotional healing.
Many spiritual practices including Kabballah refer to our ability to 'receive' as a 'vessel'. Depending on the size of that vessel it determines how many blessings you allow into your life. Jill's techniques help you get to the core of the broken pieces of your life; hence fixing the fractured parts that contribute to lowering your sense of what you feel you deserve; thus, ultimately enlarging your vessel. When your self-esteem is low it often minimizes the amount of love, money, blessings and happiness you have in your life. As you heal your self-esteem, your vessel enlarges and true transformation begins.
Working with Jill you can experience an exciting and expansive journey leading towards a future filled with hope, possibility, and newfound courage and strength. She will guide you to re-connect with the most important person in the world - YOU.
Learning to lean on your faith and connecting with Spirit are part of the puzzle. For argument's sake it does not matter who or what you believe in; so I use Universally accepted terms like 'Spirit', 'Universe' or 'G-d). You are free to interpret that in the way that works best for you. But, the key is the CONNECTION & TRUST in a higher power. The greatest healing comes from connecting inward with YOU and outward to Spirit (G-d).
Through the healing journey you will learn to define your boundaries clearly. Suddenly life begins to show you small (and sometimes BIG miracles) on a regular basis. Synchonicity avails! Life flows easier and more meaningfully. In the end you will hardly recognize the NEW YOU!!!! Some clients who work with Jill have gone through much of their life feeling lost or perhaps feel like they have lost themselves to a relationship or job (or other things). They struggle to know what they want or who they are. Together we will work to reconnect you with YOU!
I invite you to reach out if this resonates with you. My approach is spiritual, collaborative, compassionate, direct, and caring. I utilize a person-centered approach incorporating several trauma principles. My goal is for deep transformation to take place. Along the way connection, laughter and tears may flow freely.
If you need a plan to achieve your goals. Jill will help you create a LIFE PLAN and teach you the techniques to achieve the things you desire. Jill has worked with people from all walks of life from housewives, politicians, entertainers, businesspeople, doctors, financial brokers, secretaries, students, therapists, and everything in-between. If you have an honest desire to live the life you dream of and are willing to put in the work then please fill out the contact form. You will receive a response within 48 hours.
'If you don't know where you're going... How will you know when you get there?' - Jill Lanese
To schedule an appointment please click the button below or use the contact form on the Contact page.
(Interested in purchasing more than one Session? Ask us about our discounted packages.)
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We LOVE weddings & success stories! Jill's advice is
responsible for 415 Marriages so far!!!!! Latest marriages are: (2025: lots of updates coming soon!) December 2015 - Congratulations Rhonda & John! February 14, 2016 -Congratulations Sara and Joseph June 2016 - Congratulations Donald and Matt October 2016 - Congratulations Dona and Maggy October 2016 - Congratulations Merry and Barry |
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Self-esteem
Self-esteem is what you think of yourself. When it’s positive, your life unfolds effortlessly because you have confidence and self-respect. You are content with yourself and your abilities, in who you are and your competence. Self-esteem is relatively constant, though at times it can fluctuate. Healthy self-esteem makes you resilient and hopeful about life. Self-Esteem Impacts Everything. Self-esteem affects not only what you think, but also how you feel and how you act. It hugely impacts your happiness, peace of mind and enjoyment of life. It affects every aspect of your life, including your relationships, your work and goals, and how you care for yourself, your children and responsibilities. Although difficult events, such as divorce or breakups, illness, or loss of income, may in the short term moderate your self-esteem, you soon rebound to think positively about yourself and your future. Even when you fail, it doesn’t diminish your self-esteem. People with healthy self-esteem credit themselves when things go right, and when they don’t, they consider external causes and also honestly evaluate their mistakes and shortcomings. Then they improve upon them WITHOUT beating themselves up or being a victim. Without a healthy self-esteem life can become a struggle so working on breaking the barriers that hold you back from having a healthy self-esteem is imperative to create the world you desire for yourself. 
YOU Can Have Happiness in LOVE ...
Looking for Love? Wondering About Your Partner's True Feelings? Is there a New Potential Partner Coming in to Your Life? Whether you are looking for the love of your life or if you have questions about your existing relationship, a life coaching session will illuminate your path to happiness in love. Happiness in love doesn't need to be something that only happens to other people. You too can find joy and romance. Book a session to get those answers you are looking for and start down the path of finding true happiness in love. 
Karma!
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What is a Life Coach and Why Do I Need One?
Do you feel like you are in a rut? Tired? Frustrated? Not making progress? If so, you may find a Life Coach helpful. In the past decade the use of Life Coaches has propelled to new heights. Articles appear regularly in leading newspapers and magazines raving about the benefits of having a Life Coach. Professionals and individuals hire Life Coaches to 'redesign' their love life, finances, career, sports, spirituality; you name it there is a life coach for you! What exactly is a Life Coach? A Life Coach is someone you trust and confide in. They listen, understand and support your dreams while applauding your successes. A Life Coach is nonjudgmental and is in-tuned to you. They listen and ask the right questions; they understand what works in your life and what doesn't and often know the reasons 'why'. They safely guide you to uncover the necessary insights to change your life. A Life Coach might not have all the answers... but, a good life coach certainly knows the questions to ask. Your relationship with your Life Coach is different than most relationships in your life; often quite different than your relationship with a spouse, friend or therapist. Why does someone hire a coach? Sometimes a client has a vision. He is at point 'a' and wants to get to point 'b' but doesn't know the best route to get there. In other words, a client may have a mediocre job or relationship and they recognize something is missing. They sense or desire the need for 'change'. The professional may want a better job, or a different career. The single person may want to improve the quality of their relationships. Or, a client may lack joy in their lives and feel they are in a rut. They don't know 'how' or 'what' to change. A life coach can help you discover (or re-discover) your passion and purpose for your life. The possibilities and individual scenarios are varied and endless. What makes coaching work for some and not for everyone? Coaching works most effectively when the following key factors are present: 1) The Client is 'ready'. What this means is they are open to learn a new approach, emotionally open, ready for change, willing to listen, grow and embrace a new 'life plan' and execute the necessary changes 2) The Client is aware that they are not presently 'living the life they want' and has a sincere desire to make the necessary changes towards living the life they truly want Coaching works most efficiently when both of these key factors are present. The synergy between coach and client allows for respect, open dialogue, the ability to identify problems, issues or road-blocks, and allows for the creation of a new, more effective 'life plan' fueled with the strong desire and drive to reach the targeted goals. What kind of coach do I hire? That is the most common question I am asked. Quite frankly, almost any person trained as a Life Coach has the skills to assist you. But, in today's world there are countless life coach specialists each having unique skills. The first step is to know what you want to 'change'. If you want a career change hire a Career Coach. If you want better relationships hire a Relationship Coach. If you want to improve your self-esteem hire a Self-Esteem Coach. Ask yourself what you want and what isn't working in your life. Sometimes a client doesn't know or their life is on a down-hill decline... then my suggestion is to reach out to a general Life Coach or a Self-Esteem Life Coach. Self Esteem: We all have self-esteem issues. How they hinder or hold us back varies. When one lacks self-esteem their life doesn't 'work' and you feel like you are in a rut. Self-esteem is a precursor to a happy and productive life. Life is a building block and self-esteem is the foundation. Without a strong foundation life's plans and goals (even when reached) often crumble or are not fulfilling. I work with my clients to build that rock-solid strong foundation of self-esteem. The results are often Life Changing! As self-esteem grows so does self-confidence, inner peace, joy and happiness. Money problems and love issues begin to resolve themselves as the Life Coach helps you to pinpoint and focus your desires on a whole new dimension of living. You begin to feel focused and revitalized. Do you desire a Life Coach? Ask yourself the following questions: 1. What is your Passion? Do you know? Most people don't. Ask someone what they love. The may tell you American Idol, shopping, cats, dogs, eating, sports or a host of other possibilities. But are these true passions? Sometimes - YES but more often they are hobbies or pleasures we use to occupy (and/or distract) us from living our life to the fullest. In our busy world it is hard for many of us to take the time to truly know ourselves and our true passions. Most of my clients tell me somewhere along the way 'they lost themselves'. If you don't know what your passions are, it's hard to ever hit the target. After a few sessions, my clients KNOW their passions and what they want. They have a new direction and a new 'focus' within themselves. 2. What is Important to You? A Life Coach will help you identify the important things in your life and work with you to design a personalized 'life-plan' that's balanced and 'custom-designed' for you. Not a carbon copy designed for someone else. This is your life. Personalized guidance from a Life Coach will encourage you not only to devise the plan but also to follow it. You may wonder how this works - it sounds 'all too easy'. Well, what I always tell my clients is if you don't know what you want; you'll never get there. Be clear in your goals and life-plan. Your life-plan is a blueprint to getting the life you desire. 3. What makes you happy? Love? Money? Success? Friends? Admiration? All of these take focus, responsibility and the TRUE desire for having them. My clients come from all backgrounds, but one common thread binds them: their honest desire to be happy and to have the things they most desire. In our coaching sessions we focus on learning to draw into your life the things that align with your true passions and desires. 4. Who hires a Life Coach? My clients are intelligent, successful, savvy people who want more out of their life. They include business professionals, those on a spiritual quest, men and women desiring to 'remake their love life', sports stars, celebrities, moms, dads, daughters, sons, husbands, you and me. My clients hire me to help awaken their passion, rekindle joy in their lives and to restore them to their divine right to have the happiness they deserve. Our coaching sessions are built on a strong foundation of 'teamwork'. I support their passions and help my clients create the life and happiness they deserve. 5. What is holding you back? People spend hours telling you what they 'think' is holding them back. The most common things I hear are: their boss, their wife, their boyfriend, their weight, their financial situation, their clothes, their hair, and the list goes on and on. Listen very carefully - the truth is - none of these are actually holding you back. The ONLY thing that holds any of us back is our 'limiting beliefs' and 'low self esteem'. I work with my clients to help them identify both the beliefs that serve them and also those that don't. When we are aware of those beliefs that limit us, we can replace them with a new belief system that allows emotional growth, health, happiness, love and success to flow easily into our lives. 6. Stop the Negatives: Positive thoughts actually help you reach your highest potential. Negative thinking has the ability to bring us to a complete halt. How often have you had a big idea and had all these plans running through your head and then the negative chatter started. Before you know it that grandiose plan is minimized to dust. I work with my clients to teach ways to reinforce the positive chatter in our heads and reduce the negative dialogue. If you are ready and want change in your life contact Jill. 
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